The details of how the change will occur is the mysterious journey of life. We don’t know how the future will come about (our position), but our thoughts and emotions define where we want to go (our momentum). Like being on an airplane, as long as we know the destination, our exact position in any given moment throughout the journey is not important.
If we focus our thoughts and emotions on the goal, it will come in time because our life must transform into what we focus on. The specific surprises, changes, and new directions to get us there are less important, and are naturally out of our control. Know that every change brings you closer to your goal, whether it seems like it at the time or not. When your life suddenly redirects in unforeseen ways, Focus on the big-picture Goal.
Typically, we ask for change, then resist it when it comes because it also means change in the now, which is the unknown, which means unknown support structures, which is scary.