Weeks and months after tragedy strikes, the immediate shock begins to wear off. It is time to reevaluate your new circumstances.
Take stock of where your life is in this moment, now that your situation has changed. Redefine your new priorities, and come up with a short term goal for your future.
After tragedy, focusing on short term goals is more important than long term. What do you want to accomplish in one week? One month? Then focus on the immediate task at hand that will get you one step closer.
This will keep your thoughts and actions focused on a goal, and will also represent something you have achieved in the face of tragedy. That will bring out your personal power.