Yesterday, we discussed the theory that all people who we know are actually mirrors of ourselves. Other people show us various aspects of ourselves and often they are aspects that we don’t want to see and that we deny about ourselves.
When we accept that others are mirrors of ourselves, we hold a powerful tool for self exploration and growth.
When there is someone in your life who you don’t like, who really gets under your skin, here is what to do. Think of what it is you don’t like about their behavior, then try to recognize that behavior in yourself.
There must be some situation that brings out that behavior in you, even if you don’t realize it. When you recognize it in yourself, you will be able to change it.
As soon as you no longer share common traits such as similar bad behavior, you detach and disengage from the person you don’t like. When two people are not similar, they cannot share the same hologram, which means they cannot have any effect on your life at all.
We can remove people from our lives by not engaging them energetically, and not acting like them.