We don’t care how our desires come about. The Universe has infinite organizing power, driven by your mind. The details will happen as long as you know they will happen. When you want to get out of your present situation, always be certain that your life will be the way you want it to be, that each event, no matter how bad it seems at the time, leads you closer to the goal in your mind. Stay focused and resolute, especially when your goal seems furthest away.
It helps greatly to be clear on what you want, and to allow the changes to occur.