Do not expect your choice to unfold the way you expect.
Life rarely brings what we think it will, so the more we let go of our expectations, the less resistance we will feel as the unknown unfolds. The more we cling to our view of what the future should bring, the more resistance we will encounter.
Trying to control the way life unfolds is waste of personal energy. Have specific goals and specific plans to get there, then change your plan as life unfolds.
Your attitudes determine what your life is like. As long as you know that every action, every thought, every decision brings you closer to your goals, the actual actions, thoughts and decisions hold less importance.
When you don’t take life so seriously, when you let go of the illusion of control, you’ll have a lot more fun.